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"Hi I appreciate your courage to be different and to fight for that."
I identify with you while you identify with your system. It cost you blood to build it, and if it is attacked, it is your blood that is being shed. I also believe in using weapons to fight, when there is no choice, with a calm, still mind -- since enjoying their use, and their killing of people, is to lose one’s share in the common good.

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"The number of parameters with which I am struggling now make responding positively to you into an increase in the instability of a system that already has its instabilities."

If a system is unstable I try to stabilize.
If a system is stable I try to destabilize.

I will now attempt to stabilize as a strange attractor by addressing each of your well made points.
  
"I would be much concerned at having to worry about the logistics of your stay and the dynamics of your interface with the rest of the operation -- at a time when there are some specific concrete, fund- generating priorities on which we need to toil."

1. Perhaps now is only a good time to begin the conversation, but not a good time to rush a decision.
2. What logistical concerns can I shoulder so as to ease your burden. (Housing, Travel, independent funding resources,etc)
3. I have been fortunate to have had an opportunity to deeply and concretely explore dialogue and group dynamics as both a theory and a personal practice. It was a major force within my master's thesis, Private Policy | Public Problems. I take our interactions as a potential microcosm of my interface with the UIA. Naturally I see both challenges and opportunities.
4. Considering the current goals (etymology: barrier) you are toiling towards  I ask if there is anything that I can do to be of service while here in Boston thereby creating a potential wormhole between the two places.

"I just cannot afford having to worry about whether the relation is working well for you - - or to cut into my own priorities."

I am a hearty plant and I need little to establish roots, and the relation has already worked well for me if we consider the relation between me and your favorite weekend pastime of writing a fruitful analogy. Anything more should be considered on the merits of its potential complimentarity measured against the real and psychological costs of sustainging its development.
This hard to do and considering the complexity and that is why I ask no deeper a cut into your priorities at this time than reading through this page.I can only say that I am sustained by more than this potential work and that I already have connections in Belgium and the surrounding EU countryside that help to create the supportive community I need that the you and the UIA can only and should only be a part of.

"how long should an experiment last?"
I feel six months would be sufficient to constrain a trial period. In addition to a possible 6 week and 3 month check in to consider the results to date with unblinking eyes.

There are many reasons why we should be wary of conceiving any project that would ongoing parenting that we may not be ready for.

I leave you with the following piece that was part of my leadership class's final project:
www.siliconyogi.com/andreas/LeadershipMetaphors

It has been an honor and a privilige to gather with you over this semester. I ask each group below to ask yourself what Rabbi Hillel asks all of us?

I wish to thank those of you who had the courage to send me your pieces, it reminds me of the joy, suffering, truth, and ambiguity of this existence we share and it awes and terrifies me. I ask only that you find the courage to ask yourself If I am not for myself who is for me?
I wish to thank those who had the courage not to send their pieces, it reminds me of how, my fear, arrogance, and pride has kept me from listening to many who I had much to learn from. I ask only that you find the courage to ask yourself and being for my own self what am I?
Finally, I wish to thank those who had no idea that there was a page at all, it reminds me of how I might be wasting even more time on this class than I already have. I ask only that you find the courage to ask If not now when?

Web Pages to be considered:
My Home Page:
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along with (starting upper right going clockwise) Harvard Websites, Dialogos, Master Thesis, Potential Phd
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