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Two Ways: My Way or the Highway

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This is the group who has helped me  to refine what I understand about Dialogue.

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This is what I mean by conversational space.

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This is what I mean by a Discipline of conversation. That just means a way of thinking and speaking together.

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When I think of stones and languages this is the image I think of.

Prologue:

During my travels with Dialogos I have surmised the following:
      • Dialogue is about a shared inquiry, a way of thinking and reflecting together.
      • It is a living experience of inquiry within and between people.
      • The most important parts of any conversation are those that neither party could have imagined before starting.
      • It seeks to harness the “collective intelligence” of the people around us.
      • You must develop it within yourself and model it for others before you seek to apply it.
      • It is a conversation with a center, not sides.
      • It is a flow of meaning.
      • It is a conversation in which people think together in relationship.
      • It attempts to bring about change at the source of our thoughts and feelings, rather than results that our thinking produces.
      • The intention of dialogue is to reach new understanding—in doing so we form a totally new basis from which to think and act.

Dialogue is a mode of exchange among human beings in which there is a true turning to one another and a full appreciation of another person, not as an object in a social function, but as a genuine being. (Martin Buber, 1914).